Asking for help is a skill like any other skill. Have you ever heard the saying, “There is never a bad question” or “a bad question is the one that is never asked”. These are true in some ways but not adequate in others.
A question can be bad in the way it is asked and the way it is worded.
When asking a question using digital communication here are some things to consider.
- Don’t tell stories but ask one specific question with details.
- State what you want clearly without making assumptions about what others already know about your situation.
- Send a snippet/photo of the issue you are having.
- Explore a solution using other/all resources at hand.
- Follow all written instructions sent to you. Good questions are ones we have not already answered through previous communication.
- Be patient in the communication process especially if you are dealing with a complicated issue.
- Realize that we express Christian character through communication.
- Ask your questions when needed to prevent personal frustration.